I Can Make You Confident: Book and CD by Paul Mckenna

if your afraid of ppl that won’t help in your life
always remember to live your life to the fullest if u live your life a coward (in general not u) then u won’t accomplish anything in life
think about that
its your life not anybody else’s
also that girl is right don’t judge yourself
god made everyone so its better to be happy about yourself
you should be lucky u were made into this world
u r a lucky kid

i know a lot of peopel will tell you that you have to be comfortable with youself and love the way you are and everything but from experience, i know tahts not easy to do. I’m usually confident when i’m around my friends because they like me for who I am and they don’t judge me about anything. I guess i feel good aorund them because i’m not a very strong person and i know my friends would stand up for me if they needed to which helps me feel a lot safer when i’m with them. Confidence is a hard thing to achieve most of the time. Just don’t give a c**p about what people say because ten years from now, the f*gs that made fun of you would probably end up jobless or whatever cuz you need to do what you need to do and you should live with no regrets (and thats hard to do, too). I hope that helped. I’ve had confidence problems before and i feel for you.

The best way to be confident is to stop focusing on your lack of it. Whenever you find that you are criticizing yourself, stop and instead focus on something else. Try to focus on your good qualities and find something that you are passionate about, whether it be sports, art, you-tubing, etc, and before long, you will be more comfortable with yourself.
It’s funny, but most confident people don’t even realize they are confident.

Sometimes you just have to fake it. Sounds impossible, I know. But when other people believe it you will too eventually. Try it.
Also, I’d surround yourself with loud people! I know it seems silly but it worked for me. You can just hide behind their confidence. And also they stick up for you when someone pays you out.
Just be yourself, hun!

dont think aobut all the bad stuff about urself; only think aobut all the good thinggs, dont worry everyones amazing in their own wayy u know? try to love ur self 4 who u r, and u cood always ask ur frends for stuff that is good aobut u, coz they r frends w/ u for who u r, and know that u have ppl that love u

fake it. if you force yourself to feign confidence in social situations, people will believe you and REAL confidence will be soon to follow. Once you see the positive reactions of others to this new confidence, real, true confidence will find its way.